How to use a Vibrator

With so many different vibrators in the market, it can be difficult choosing the right one. With thousands of shapes, colours and functions it’s important you make the right choice. If you are still unsure about which vibrator to go for, then we recommend our guide on choosing the perfect vibrator. How to use a vibrator once it arrives is what we are going to cover in this article.

Once you’ve ordered your vibrator and it arrives in the post, how to use a vibrator? It sounds like a silly question but if you have ordered the best vibrator, you want to make sure you can achieve the best vibrator results.

Learning how to use your vibrator for the first time can be a really exciting experience. Whether you have chosen a bullet vibrator, rabbit vibrator, vibrating panties or even a cheap vibrator, learning how to use it properly is great fun either on your own or with a partner.

This guide will teach you how to use a vibrator as well as loads of other helpful tips and tricks.

Although it can be great using your vibrator during sex, we recommend you experiment the first few times on your own. This will allow you to familiarise yourself with the controls and get a feel for what vibration strength suit you best. Cheap vibrators or bullet vibrators often only come with one speed setting making them easy to control, allowing you to concentrate on stimulating your erogenous zones.

Vibrators vary in price hugely, they generally range from the relatively cheap bullet vibrators all the way up to the more expensive Hitachi vibrators and the customer favourite Jessica rabbit vibrator.  At Mr Hoppy, we sell a complete range to suit all tastes and budgets and because we know how important discretion is, all our parcels are delivered in discreet packaging via a Royal Mail recorded delivery service.

If you live in a shared house then we recommend using one of our quiet vibrators, the Silencer totally silent vibe is a great option as you can discreetly experiment without the fear of your flatmates hearing what you are up to. Once you have somewhere suitable to start experimenting try and ensure you are slightly turned on before using the vibrator. It takes different things to arouse different people, some read erotic books such as fifty shades of grey, some people just like to use their imagination and other people choose to watch porn. Once you feel suitably turned on then you should begin using your vibrator on its slowest settings.

 Gently experiment by moving the silent vibrator over your erogenous zones until you feel ready to move on to your clitoris. The vibrations will feel different depending on which part of the body you are stimulating. If at any time it becomes uncomfortable, just slow the vibrator down slightly until it feels comfortable again. The best vibrators will have multiple speed settings to allow you to find the perfect speed setting. Bullet vibrators are great because of their compact size, it allows you to be more precise with the area you are stimulating. Once you feel comfortable you can slowly start to build up the vibration power slowly increasing your stimulation as you build towards climax.

The key to reaching orgasm is to not focus too much on it, let it happen naturally. Just focus on what feels nice and let the vibrator do the work for you. Slowly move the vibrator down, gently stimulating your labia, slowly teasing yourself with the vibrations. Gradually increase the stimulation by moving closer to your clitoris. You might not need to stimulate the clitoris directly with the vibrator as this can feel too intense for many people. Gently tease and stimulate yourself with the vibrator at optimum speed until you reach the desired result.

If you are interested in how to use a vibrator on a girl then the above guide should hopefully come in useful.

 

Using a vibrator with your partner can be fantastic fun and a great way to spice things up. Male vibrators are available but you can usually use your bullet vibrator or remote vibrator with the same result. Vibrating panties are fantastic for foreplay, leaving your partner at the controls they decide how much satisfaction you receive.

The only issue some couples run in to when using a bullet vibrator or sex toy is your partner’s confidence. Some people can see the introduction of a sex to in to the relationship as a sign that they are doing something wrong or somehow inadequate. Always reassure your partner that sex toys and vibrators are a fantastic way to make the relationship stronger.  

One word of warning when introducing vibrators in to a relationship, don’t become too reliant on using the sex toys every time you have sex. Some couples desensitise themselves by frequently using vibrators every time they have sex and relying on it too much. The best vibrators are designed to make your sex life better without you becoming too reliant on it to fulfil both your needs. Mr Hoppy recommends reading the customer reviews when purchasing your product to give you an idea of what other couples thought.

Once you have experimented with a range of cheap vibrators then why not try one of our best vibrators, such as the customer favourite Jessica Rabbit Ultimate. Some people look around and think what can I use as a vibrator? To be honest there is no substitute for a quality bullet vibrator or a silent vibrator when first starting to experiment.

If you enjoyed reading about how to use a vibrator, then we have a massive range of sex toy guides, designed to help you find the perfect product and answer any questions you may have about the range of sex toys we offer. Whether you have never purchased a sex toy before or you a experienced frequent user, our guides cover vibrators, dildos, bondage, couples, cock rings, penis pumps, guides to anal play. We’ve even written a guide on how to clean and store your favourite sex toys.